It is surprising how many people simply don’t have a pet memorial, or they think that others will find it foolish and not attend. Well, anyone who has lost one of their animal friends will understand how much you are hurting. You may be quite surprised at how supportive people will be when you say you are having a memorial. That being said, you don’t have to necessarily invite anyone if you don’t want to. Sometimes, having a memorial by yourself simply offers you the opportunity to say goodbye in an honorable way.
Tips for Planning a Pet Memorial
Cremation or Burial – This is likely the most important decision you make in the entire pet memorial process. Pet cremation has become quite popular in recent years, because you can keep the remains in an urn and take it with you, wherever your life leads you in the future.
- Pick a Time – Most find it easiest to have the memorial in their home. If you are inviting, people send invitations or emails.
- Order Memorial Stone – This is an important component to a memorial service. Just as a headstone is placed for a human, a memorial stone should be laid for your pet.
- Speech – Your speech can be a simple few minutes, or you may want to ask everyone to share a fun memory.
- Refreshments – You don’t have to spend a lot of money on refreshments, but a little comfort food does offer strength when everyone is hurting.